I bet many people can assume what is the topic all about. Yes, in malay language it says "bertepuk sebelah tangan tidak akan berbunyi"
Honestly, being an adult we do not intend to be an inspector every single time we meet our bf/fiance/hubby and whatnots. But when we dont, things can actually get haywire. In short, do not trust the other half too much that in the end it will cost a heartbreak to yourself. When it happened behind your back, u surely become devastated and damage has been done, no turning back to repair things. All u can do is suck it, move on. Take it or leave it. The wound will never be healed in a short period of time, and when u dont feel right, u intend to bring the past up to satisfy urself and blame everything on ur bf/fiance/hubby. And damage will prolong.
I am not the type who will ambush the third party. I will blame the other half dulu because it really takes two to tango. On the other hand, I am praying that Allah swt will return the same disastrous to the third party. Always have this in mind that karma is really a bitch. The world is round, the wheel is moving.. Doesnt mean u will always be on top, u will be at the most bottom when the time is right. By then only, u wud know how it feels to be the victim.
From my personal judgements (not being perasan or bongkak) but then she is never my standard. But things really did happen and I hope it will not happen again. It is really hard for me to face the thruth, kept saying to myself that it was never a dream.
Monday, August 30, 2010
Saturday, August 14, 2010
Mr White HP
Hello.
Fyi, my 7 years Dell laptop has died on me last Tuesday. I was too sad, it helped me a lot during my uni years. But hey, I think it's about time to change, if it didn't die then I won't change. I didn't have the intention to buy so soon coz I have so many other things to consider.
So today I went to the pasar tani with my mother, saje teman die sebab fikir dok rumah takde buat apepe. Went straight to Carrefour after that since she wanted to get some groceries. Went to see the laptops hehe. So without any intention, I bought a HP laptop in white. Hence the title. Worth it jugak la sebab I only use laptop for internet, pictures and dvd. Nothing really requires me to purchase laptops which cost big bucks. So far, it's perfect for myself. Perfect size weight and nice la :)
Fyi, my 7 years Dell laptop has died on me last Tuesday. I was too sad, it helped me a lot during my uni years. But hey, I think it's about time to change, if it didn't die then I won't change. I didn't have the intention to buy so soon coz I have so many other things to consider.
So today I went to the pasar tani with my mother, saje teman die sebab fikir dok rumah takde buat apepe. Went straight to Carrefour after that since she wanted to get some groceries. Went to see the laptops hehe. So without any intention, I bought a HP laptop in white. Hence the title. Worth it jugak la sebab I only use laptop for internet, pictures and dvd. Nothing really requires me to purchase laptops which cost big bucks. So far, it's perfect for myself. Perfect size weight and nice la :)
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| Easier for me to carry around :-) |
Sunday, August 8, 2010
The delayed E post
Let me just continue with my engagement post (wayyy delayed post). This is going to be a really long entry (and tomorrow is Monday ya'll, but I still want to rant about it).
Date : 26 June 2010 (Saturday)
Time : After Zohor, started at around 3 pm
Place : Home, Bukit Jelutong Shah Alam
Attire : Chiffon material tailor made by my mother's long-time chinese tailor, then it was sent for beadings
Make up : Bobbi Brown, Subang Parade
Guests : Close family and friends only
Theme : Pink &; white (main taram saje)
Hantaran : Self made, dulang pinjam my mother's friend's since anak die pun baru engaged. It was very simple, we used fresh flowers to 'hidupkan' the simple hantaran. I love fresh flowers.
Food & Tent : Mother's choice.
Twas a very simple ceremony. Even though it was very simple, I still wanted it to look nice and pretty. Hence we used fresh roses (decors) & daisies (for hantaran) sponsored by my maksu :) Alhamdulilah it all went very well. I love fresh flowers, it makes everything look nice and pretty (to my opinion it is).
The ring was chosen by me, people call it as an "eternity" ring. Pieces of diamonds are all around the ring, tenggelam. My choice always. Well, actually the ring was supposed to be the 'merisik' ring as we didn't plan to have engagement ceremony but then when Jab's family came for merisik, his mother suggested to have engagement since I am the first in my generation to get hitched first. So there goes :)
We didn't hire any official photographer (which I kinda regret actually), pictures were from random cameras, mainly Fad's. So here goes, some of the pictures taken ;)
Ada pictures yang I haven't gotten from Jab. Ok that's all. Bye
Date : 26 June 2010 (Saturday)
Time : After Zohor, started at around 3 pm
Place : Home, Bukit Jelutong Shah Alam
Attire : Chiffon material tailor made by my mother's long-time chinese tailor, then it was sent for beadings
Make up : Bobbi Brown, Subang Parade
Guests : Close family and friends only
Theme : Pink &; white (main taram saje)
Hantaran : Self made, dulang pinjam my mother's friend's since anak die pun baru engaged. It was very simple, we used fresh flowers to 'hidupkan' the simple hantaran. I love fresh flowers.
- From her to him : Shirt, bunga rampai, sirih junjung, cake and fruits (5 dulang)
- From him to her : Telekung + tafsir Quran, ring + tepak sirih, batik crepe material (my aunty bought in Terengganu) + chocolates (3 dulang)
Food & Tent : Mother's choice.
Twas a very simple ceremony. Even though it was very simple, I still wanted it to look nice and pretty. Hence we used fresh roses (decors) & daisies (for hantaran) sponsored by my maksu :) Alhamdulilah it all went very well. I love fresh flowers, it makes everything look nice and pretty (to my opinion it is).
The ring was chosen by me, people call it as an "eternity" ring. Pieces of diamonds are all around the ring, tenggelam. My choice always. Well, actually the ring was supposed to be the 'merisik' ring as we didn't plan to have engagement ceremony but then when Jab's family came for merisik, his mother suggested to have engagement since I am the first in my generation to get hitched first. So there goes :)
We didn't hire any official photographer (which I kinda regret actually), pictures were from random cameras, mainly Fad's. So here goes, some of the pictures taken ;)
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| When I was made up. I just love the product, best! |
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| Lovely friends |
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| They have called for 'sarung cincin' moment. Takut k! |
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| Myself, MIL & my mother <3 |
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| With his female siblings |
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| My favourite that I have to put twice in this blog. Lol |
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| My maksu, aka my wedding planner. Thank God I have her around. She's the one with 1001 ideas ;) |
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| Myself with all the hantaran from both sides |
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| From left : Maisara, Hani, Tasha and myself |
Of grey, light pink, light green... What else?
Salam & hello all
I've been meaning to write a descent post about my engagement but there are a lot of distractions. Hehe. Btw, today is my mother's birthday. Happy birthday to her! Bought "nasi mandi kambing" from al-Rawsha at Jln Damai Ampang for her since she had this nasi arab cravings. Alhamdulilah, she loved it so much. The nasi mandi kambing was very very good. Actually, I've never tried any real Arabic food (mind u) but twas really goooooood :) I'll go again and have a descent meal for myself soon..
I've been going to Ikea for the past 3 weeks (straight!) to look-see furniture for our future home (insyaAllah). And man, Ikea is the one place u would never go during weekends! Well, I didn't want to go if there were any other options. The crowd was freaking crowded! Dah macam pasar malam, seriously!! We got what we wanted, and then we went off. Serious tak larat! We want Ikea furniture sebab contemporary and nice for an apartment. Tapi mmg sakit hati lah. Aiseh.
Went to see my aunty, discussed about my nikah and reception theme, colour, tailor, attire and etc. Hence the title.... Now, I am confused.
I've been meaning to write a descent post about my engagement but there are a lot of distractions. Hehe. Btw, today is my mother's birthday. Happy birthday to her! Bought "nasi mandi kambing" from al-Rawsha at Jln Damai Ampang for her since she had this nasi arab cravings. Alhamdulilah, she loved it so much. The nasi mandi kambing was very very good. Actually, I've never tried any real Arabic food (mind u) but twas really goooooood :) I'll go again and have a descent meal for myself soon..
I've been going to Ikea for the past 3 weeks (straight!) to look-see furniture for our future home (insyaAllah). And man, Ikea is the one place u would never go during weekends! Well, I didn't want to go if there were any other options. The crowd was freaking crowded! Dah macam pasar malam, seriously!! We got what we wanted, and then we went off. Serious tak larat! We want Ikea furniture sebab contemporary and nice for an apartment. Tapi mmg sakit hati lah. Aiseh.
Went to see my aunty, discussed about my nikah and reception theme, colour, tailor, attire and etc. Hence the title.... Now, I am confused.
Saturday, August 7, 2010
Delayed Redang Post
The gang : Myself, Jun and Fad
Duration at the island : 16 - 18 July (Friday, Saturday & Sunday)
To Kuala Terengganu : 1030pm bus on 15 July
To/from Jeti to Pulau Redang (Back & Fro : Boat ride by Resort
From Kuala Terengganu to KL : FireFly flight at 430pm on 18 July
It was a great weekend in Redang. Would love to go again some other time especially during the month of May or June. As they said, at that time the beach is very beautiful. Made new friends and the trip changed my interest, I am now so keen to join diving class please!
I dont know what else to write. Great trip, great company, awesome place, great times, beautiful sandy beach, beautiful island, beautiful underwater creatures and everything else was beautiful, MasyaAllah. When we woke up in the morning, there was the clear blue sea water waiting for us to "mandi". Hehe ;)
Enjoy some of the pictures ;)
I miss this place xx
Duration at the island : 16 - 18 July (Friday, Saturday & Sunday)
To Kuala Terengganu : 1030pm bus on 15 July
To/from Jeti to Pulau Redang (Back & Fro : Boat ride by Resort
From Kuala Terengganu to KL : FireFly flight at 430pm on 18 July
It was a great weekend in Redang. Would love to go again some other time especially during the month of May or June. As they said, at that time the beach is very beautiful. Made new friends and the trip changed my interest, I am now so keen to join diving class please!
I dont know what else to write. Great trip, great company, awesome place, great times, beautiful sandy beach, beautiful island, beautiful underwater creatures and everything else was beautiful, MasyaAllah. When we woke up in the morning, there was the clear blue sea water waiting for us to "mandi". Hehe ;)
Enjoy some of the pictures ;)
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| Clear water <3 |
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| Scenery was spectacular! |
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| Bende yg buat muka cam bloodyfool |
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| Tak pakai life jacket. Ahah |
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| Wide lense rocks! |
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| Weee! Love this one |
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| Abg Joe, Redang Holiday |
I miss this place xx
Ramadhan is coming really soon
Salam & morning all
I was awake at 6am on a Saturday morning to the azan Subuh but I cannot pray. So I check my fb msg and there was a reply fr my friend. She told me that her mother was diagnosed with breast cancer about a month ago. Now her mother is experiencing chemotherapy therapy n radiation or something like that. I became so sebak alongside the azan. Sungguh besar kuasa Allah swt utk menguji umat Dia. I just advised her to be strong and doa a lot to Allah swt because in this matter, no one else may help except HIM. I just couldn't imagine if such thing happens to me. Nauzubillah, mintak dijauhkan semua itu. Amin
On another note, Ramadhan is approaching very soon. Alhamdulilah, this year insyaAllah I may do Terawikh without having to worry like last year because I am working on a normal time working basis. No more evening or night shift weekdays or weekends. Alhamdulilah. I am so grateful for that. I just hope I can do Terawikh smoothly insyaAllah. And I would want to have a dream, to be fasting and celebrate 1st Syawal in Mecca insyaAllah. I just wish for that since I don't know when. Taktau bila ?
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I was awake at 6am on a Saturday morning to the azan Subuh but I cannot pray. So I check my fb msg and there was a reply fr my friend. She told me that her mother was diagnosed with breast cancer about a month ago. Now her mother is experiencing chemotherapy therapy n radiation or something like that. I became so sebak alongside the azan. Sungguh besar kuasa Allah swt utk menguji umat Dia. I just advised her to be strong and doa a lot to Allah swt because in this matter, no one else may help except HIM. I just couldn't imagine if such thing happens to me. Nauzubillah, mintak dijauhkan semua itu. Amin
On another note, Ramadhan is approaching very soon. Alhamdulilah, this year insyaAllah I may do Terawikh without having to worry like last year because I am working on a normal time working basis. No more evening or night shift weekdays or weekends. Alhamdulilah. I am so grateful for that. I just hope I can do Terawikh smoothly insyaAllah. And I would want to have a dream, to be fasting and celebrate 1st Syawal in Mecca insyaAllah. I just wish for that since I don't know when. Taktau bila ?
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